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Family Finding Information  

Strategic planning indentified the need for an informational handout on the subject of Diligent Search and Family Engagement that could be used by Case Managers/Supervisors in FST/PPRT meetings, during court proceedings and when talking to DJO/GAL/CASA. A document has been developed to be used as an attachment to a court report or to present to someone needing more information on the requirements of the law and the philosophy behind Family Finding and Engagement. The handout includes:

• Information on our agency.
• Our philosophy of Family Finding and Engagement.
• CD outcomes relevant to the number of children in care and their exit status.
• Research on the benefits of relative/kinship foster care.
• Federal Fostering Connections Law and Missouri Fostering Connections Law.
• Hierarchy of placements as defined by Mo law.
• Other Mo laws that support relative involvement.
• CD’s Fostering Connection Policy (10-55)  that outlines the requirements of noticing relatives, the boundaries of confidentiality and also identifies the requirements of a diligent search.

Use the link below to view or print the handout.

Family Finding Handout  
 

 
Awesome things happening with Famly Finding...  

We have a lot of really awesome things happening. Here are a few of the great things going on with our kids thanks to our staff and their hard work! 

Tristan - Both parents have been terminated and Tristan was adopted.  His adoption disrupted and both bio parents have expressed an interest in getting involved.  Although the team is not quite ready for this, his parents are keeping in contact with CM and FF.
 
Philica - This was a new referral in July.  Although Philicia has some contact with her paternal family she had little contact with anyone on her mother's side.  We have been looking for her mom and as a result found several maternal family members.  Philicia has been having phone contact with her maternal aunt.   Philicia has learned about a sister who is has living in Columbia not far from her.
 
Helen - We have had Helen's case since March 2009.  She has had very little to no contact with any family members since her referral.  However, after extensive searches we have located and talked with several family members. We learned of two older siblings in another state and Helen has been having written contact with her brother. Helen's mother has been writing as well although the team is not yet ready to share those letters.  
 
Jeremy - Jeremy was adopted and when his adoptive father passed away he came into care.  Several family members have been located for Jeremy. He is now having phone and written contact with his bio father as well as his paternal grandmother.  Jeremy is looking forward to a visit from his father.  
 
Spencer  - Spencer has had little to no contact with his family for quite some time. Spencer requested contact with his older brother and while researching his brother, 25 other family members were found.  Since this time, Spencer has been having phone contact with two maternal aunts.  I believe that visit is being planned!!

Aaron - Aaron was adopted by his paternal grandmother.  Aaron has been in custody three times and enrolled with MACF twice.  His adopted mother and paternal grandmother do not want contact with him.  Since having the case we have been searching for Aaron's bio mother.  We have not yet located her but in the search did locate his maternal grandmother.  She is visiting Aaron frequently and attending the FST's.  Aaron learned of an older sister that was adopted and living in another state. He also learned that he is an uncle!!
 
Brandon - Brandon has been interested in seeking out his father for quite some time.  Many attempts at locating his father have failed.  However,  in our search we have found other extended relatives.  Brandon has been having phone and facebook contact with a cousin Chloe.  A visit between the two is being scheduled.
 
Dearon - While looking for Dearon's father a paternal aunt was found in Las Vegas.  At this time there has been know contact between the two, however, she has expressed an interest in doing "what ever she can to help".
 
Jesse James - This is a new referral.  Currently he has few family members involved.  After completing a genogram 79 family members were located.  Contact with his maternal uncle prompted an email back expressing an interest in learning more.  The uncle is interested in participating in FST's and finding out more about how he can help.  
 
Matt - Matt just had his first visit with his sister in four years.  He is also having phone contact with his grandmother who lives in another state and who will be visiting soon.  
 
Karrie - Although Karrie's parents right's have been terminated her team agreed for her to start communicating with them.  Karrie had little to know contact with family until recently.  Currently she is having phone and facebook contact with her mother and father. 
 
Kenneth - In the FF process we located his bio mother who had been TPR'd. She has expressed an interest in being involved in Kenneth's life. The team however, is not quite ready for this step but she did give her worker some great information.  The person who we believed was Kenneth's father is not. The alleged father was located and a DNA test confirmed that he in fact was Kenneth's father. Since then his father has expressed an interest in gaining a relationship with Kenneth and working on a plan to have him placed in his home.  
 
Hunter - Hunter's family keeps growing.  To date he has reestablished contact with three of his four siblings as well as his bio mother and maternal aunt.  Hunter has been stable in his placement for 14 months.  Which is awesome considering he normally was moved due to his behaviors every 3-4 months. 
 
Tim - Tim has been enrolled with MACF twice.  The first time Tim was only 12 years old.  We managed his case for four years.  During this time Tim had no contact with anyone in his family, although is mother sometimes attended FST's.  Tim was discharged in July 2011 and committed to DYS.  We received his case back in November.  Since this time, we have located his mother, father, paternal grandmother, maternal aunt and a cousin.  Tim's maternal aunt and cousin participated in his initial FST.  Tim was hesitant to let family participate but reluctantly agreed.  The meeting went great and Tim has been having phone contact and has had one visit with his aunt thus far.  Another visit is being scheduled for December 30th.  Tim has also been having phone contact with his cousin Amanda.  Both his grandmother and dad are planning to attend the next FST. 

 
Family Finding  

There are over 100,000 youth in foster care over the age of 16. These are some of the loneliest children in our society, as they wait for someone who will make a lifelong commitment to love and support them.  

Missouri Alliance for Children and Families (MACF) is committed to work with a sense of urgency, with every youth that we serve, to enhance their lives through finding, engaging and supporting permanent lifelong connections to family.  This work is rooted in developing a network of committed supports intended to last a lifetime.   

MACF is rooted in community partnership and believe that all aspects of our community are needed in order to assure that families we serve are able to provide lifetime supports for their children. 

As we work to develop and enhance community knowledge about permanent family connections, we are able to provide trainings to assist in developing these skills.

We can assist in developing capacity to find and engage families, we are able to provide instruction and guidance around preparing youth and families for permanent connections, and how to sustain family involvement in case planning.
We are able to provide strategies for organizational implementation through policy and practice.  As well as, working directly with supervisors to develop their ability to guide and effectively supervise this work. 

MACF is committed to identifying and managing barriers to permanency to yield better outcomes for the youth and families that we serve.  
 

To discuss how we can assist you in your training or searching needs, please contact us. 

 
Success Stories  

                                  The journey of a lifetime starts with one step…

Charlie was 15 years old when we started this journey, he has recently turned 16. Charlie is a really sweet young man, but also exhibits some very unsafe behaviors. And at the time we initiated Family Finding, Charlie was at a very low point. He had just been hospitalized and he was getting ready to return to another secure residential placement. 

Charlie has no family that comes and visits with him.  He has a twin brother that he has not been able to see in over 8 months, his mother is incarcerated and his father is unknown.  And so Charlie is all alone to deal with his feelings of overwhelming loneliness and fear. 

We worked to search back through Charlie’s file, to try and uncover any hidden bits of information that could help us identify family connections.  We did not uncover much new information.  As part of our discovery of Charlie’s past information we talked to his mother.  She is incarcerated in prison related to the serious abuse of Charlie and his siblings.  As a result of this, no case manager has talked to her in some time.  In our meeting with Mom, we discussed the past and some of the situations that were present.  The information that we gathered that day was invaluable.  We were able to provide answers to Charlie and to fill in some of the gaps regarding his history. It also provided us with significant information that aided us in his therapeutic needs.  
As we continued in our discovery of Charlie’s past we were able to find some possible information on Charlie’s dad through child support records.  We were quickly able to locate Dad in a neighboring state, a little more internet searching gave us an address and phone number. After calling a few numbers, we were able to make contact with Dad.

We talked about how he had tried to find Charlie when he noticed his child support payments had stopped. He called to inquire about Charlie (and his brother) and to say that he wanted the boys to come and live with him. However, a series of missed phone messages, unreturned calls and finally a message that he had no rights to the boys (parents were not married), led Dad to give up. Now, 5 years later, here we are.

There was some work to be done, because Charlie had been told that his father was a different person and so through our therapeutic work we helped Charlie know his story.  At the same time our case management team worked to develop the relationship between Dad.  Dad began participating in the planning for Charlie and then having contact with Charlie. 

 
Success Stories  

 

"All I wanted for my birthday was my family.

                     And guess what? I got it!"

Frank (name changed for confidentiality) is a young boy that has been in foster care on two occasions and has spent more than half of his young life in foster care. He is an antsy boy, like most boys his age - with a great sense of humor and an adorable smile. Full of questions about who he is and where does he fit in, and looking for answers... 

He is currently placed in a residential facility. He has had many different placements over the past years. 

Frank's team knew he needed somebody, or else his future was looking bleak. So Allison, team supervisor, started searching for family. And with some persistence and good detective work...Frank was connected with several safe relatives from his Mom's family. One Aunt in particular, had been searching for Frank and wondering what had happened to him.  

She and Frank have had many phone converstations, but no visits due to the distance the Aunt lives. However, on his birthday, his Aunt and other family got in their car and drove to see Frank. He was so excited, he had a family birthday party! And when he was talking about his party, he did not mention the cake, balloons or gifts. He said, "All I wanted for my birthday was my family. And guess what? I got it! I did not want any presents just my family".
I don't know how many of you know any 12 year olds... but most of them want material things - but not Frank. He just wanted to belong.

 
   

Family Finding and Engagement
What is it?

Family Finding and Engagement is both a philosophy and a set of practices designed to help child welfare workers locate, engage, connect, and support kinship resources for children in the child welfare system. It is modeled after search practices used by international disaster relief organizations to reconnect families torn apart by war and other disasters.
Family Finding and Engagement can benefit children who:
 
Are in the process of emancipating from foster care and who were thought to have no family or kinship connections
 
Have experienced many placements with non-relative caregivers
 
Have lost contact with extended family or kin, including those whose parents’ rights have been terminated
 
Are at the front-end assessment/intake stage
 
This philosophy has been featured on 60 Minutes and recently in the New York Times.
 
This philosophy and practice is congruent with the Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act which mandates relative searching.

 
   

Why do we do it?

Missouri Alliance is committed to Wraparound. This is an intensive, individualized care management process for youths with serious or complex needs. Culturally competency, community based services and natural supports are the foundation for this process. 
 
The goal of Family Finding and Engagement is to find and connect each youth with the lifelong connections that only a family can offer.
 
Core beliefs inherent in this approach are:
 
·        Every child has a family
 
·        Loneliness is one of the most significant and overlooked feeling that foster children experience
 
·        Meaningful connections to family help create a sense of belonging for children
 
·        Single most identified contributing factor to positive outcomes for children in foster care is a meaningful connection and relationship with family.

 
   

Our Experience

Missouri Alliance for Children & Families was first introduced to Family Finding in 2007.  

Since that time we’ve had extensive training from national consultants and developers of Family Finding, Kevin Campbell and Don Keonig.  

We are working with the agencies within our Consortium in the implementation of Family Finding and Engagement philosophy and skills into their practice.
 
These agencies are:
 · Great Circle
 · Children’s Foundation of Mid-America
 · Missouri Baptist Children’s Home
 · Every Child’s Hope 

Demonstrated Outcomes

Emotional Connections
Decrease in disruptive behavior
Placement stability
Step Down to lower level of care
Increase family participation in planning
Permanent connections to family
Kinship/Relative placement

 
 
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